Are Shih Tzus Good Family Dogs?

By Homestead Acres team · September 19, 2026

If you're picturing a dog who greets everyone at the door, curls up on the couch and fits into daily life, a Shih Tzu may be a great match. Here is what we tell families who ask whether this breed suits a busy household.

A people-first temperament

The Shih Tzu was bred for companionship. Most are affectionate, cheerful and happiest in the middle of whatever the family is doing. They don't need a job or a big yard. They need you.

That devotion comes with a trade-off. A Shih Tzu who is left alone for long stretches can become anxious or bored, so think about your daily schedule honestly.

Shih Tzus and children

Shih Tzus tend to be gentle and playful with children who know how to treat a small dog. Because adults weigh only about 9 to 16 pounds, they can be hurt by rough handling or a fall. With younger kids, teach them to sit on the floor to hold the puppy, to avoid carrying it around, and to leave it alone when it is eating or asleep.

Always supervise play between toddlers and puppies. A calm routine protects both.

Living with other pets

Most Shih Tzus get along with other dogs and cats, especially when introduced early and slowly. Give them a safe space of their own and reward calm behavior during first meetings. Larger or very energetic dogs may need extra supervision, because a Shih Tzu is small and easily overwhelmed.

Energy level and exercise

Shih Tzus have moderate energy. A couple of short walks, some indoor play and plenty of lap time keep most of them happy. Because of their short muzzles, they can overheat, so avoid vigorous exercise in hot or humid weather.

This makes them a good option for apartments, seniors and families with limited yard space.

Grooming is part of the deal

The long, silky coat is beautiful but takes work. Plan on daily brushing and regular baths, or a shorter cut that is easier to maintain. Grooming also becomes a bonding routine your dog will come to love when it starts early.

Training and personality

Shih Tzus are intelligent but occasionally stubborn. Short, upbeat sessions with treats work much better than harsh corrections. Potty training can take patience, so be consistent and keep a schedule.

Who may want a different breed

If you want a running partner, a guard dog or a dog who is happy being alone all day, a Shih Tzu is probably not your best fit. If you're away from home for long hours, talk with us about whether a puppy suits your schedule right now.

Come meet them

The best way to know is to meet the puppies. Call or text us to schedule a visit in Middletown, Delaware, or set up a video call. Tell us about your family and we'll help you find the right match.

Everyday life with a Shih Tzu

A typical day looks like this: a morning walk, breakfast, a little play, a long nap in a sunny spot, a short training session, an afternoon stroll and an evening of lap time. Shih Tzus fit into family routines easily and tend to adapt to whatever the household's pace is, as long as they get company, exercise and consistent care.

They also tend to travel well. Many families bring them along on errands, visits and vacations in a carrier or on a leash.

Questions to ask yourself before you buy

Is someone home for much of the day? Can we commit to daily brushing and regular grooming? Are all family members on board, and do we have time for training? Are we ready for a pet that may live fifteen years? If you can answer yes, a Shih Tzu may be a wonderful addition. If any answer is unsure, talk it over with us. We'd rather help you make the right decision than the quick one.

How Shih Tzus handle changes in the household

Families change. A new baby, a move, a new job schedule or a new pet can all stress a dog. Shih Tzus tend to take change in stride if they stay close to their people and keep their routines. Keep meals, walks and bedtime at the usual times and give your dog a quiet place to retreat. When a baby arrives, introduce the scent of a blanket first and then reward calm behavior around the newcomer.

Because they're adaptable, Shih Tzus also do well with seniors, singles, couples and multigenerational households. The common thread is simple: they want to be near the people they love.

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